Why protect our energy?
The perfect example just this second walked into the coffee shop where I write to help me demonstrate this! No kidding. Have you ever been near a stranger and just sensed that something was "off" about their energy? It can feel very distracting and creepy. For me, it gives me chills and makes me want to leave, and I can't even put a finger on why exactly I feel this way. This same person comes in here almost every time I'm here, and though he's never said a word to me, his energy just bugs.
One time while I was here writing, I felt an icy blast of cold creep all the way across my back, and when I turned around, he was standing about three feet behind me, facing my back but with a newspaper held up in front of his face. I stopped what I was doing, closed my eyes, focused on my protection bubble, (which I'll teach you in a minute) and also imagined a giant shield around me. Immediately afterward, (I mean not even 5 seconds!) creepy guy put down his paper and walked away, out of my field of vision. Mission accomplished!
Everyone is made up of energy and carries around additional energy that they pick up along the way. It feels great to be around some people's energy and it feels icky to be around others'. This ickiness can stick to us and dampen our own energy. And let's face it, as mothers we need all the energy we can get. We certainly don't want random people throwing dark clouds over us for no good reason.
The more we meditate and tune into subtle energy, the more sensitive we'll become to other people's energy.
Therefore … the Protection Bubble.
Here's how you do it:- Imagine yourself completely enclosed in an egg-shaped bubble. You can see out perfectly, but icky energy can't get in.
- Fill the bubble with white light, like puffy, white clouds. This is loving, protective energy.
- Now imagine covering the outside of your bubble with mirrors, facing out. This reflects any negative energy back at the sender, keeping it off of you. They usually don't like what they see reflected back and will retreat, like creepy coffee shop guy did.
So that's it. I hope you've found this series helpful. If so, please consider sharing it with the little share button right below this post.
Cheers!
6 comments:
thanks for this, you've put in so much effort, and it's really appreciated. Am definitely going to give this a try - I really like the idea of a positive, protective shield.
You're welcome, Julie! I'm glad it's inspired you to give it a try. Personally, I'm rather amazed at how well it works. I used to be VERY cranky in crowds. Now (when I use the bubble) it doesn't affect me that way anymore. Let me know how it works for you!
Cheers!
Alexis
Wonderful series, and I'm glad you included this part. I know some people are uncomfortable with protection things like this, they feel like it is too focused on the negative, but I totally disagree. We have to be realistic about the world we live in.
Thanks, Lisa. I know what you mean about that discomfort. I used to feel that way. I wanted to plug my ears, close my eyes, and say la-la-la-la-la-la whenever someone made reference to any kind of energy that wasn't pure love and light. Now, with some tools for understanding energy, I don't feel that fear anymore. It just makes sense to not unconsciously absorb the yuck.
Cheers!
Alexis
I recently learned a slightly different bubble technique and it's been very powerful for me. The idea is that we can lovingly bubble OTHER people. For example, this has been helping me to associate my son's disrespect as HIS unmet need. It stays inside his bubble and is NOT about me. It's much easier for me to remain neutral with this visualization.
To be fair, I also bubble myself- but it is not so much for protection because the surrounding space is already neutral. My bubble is there to remind me not to project my own energy onto other people. Everyone owns their stuff. In the case of our children, we gently give back their struggles (if we have inappropriately taken them as our own) and let them handle as much as possible. I felt guilty about this at first and then I realized that sending the message of confidence in my children is incredibly powerful at building their self-esteem.
I grew up with a sort of warped idea of "empathy", thinking that it meant I climbed inside other people's bubbles, felt their pain, and took it upon myself to solve their problems. I'm realizing that true empathy is keeping those boundaries intact while being present and listening.
I've also been using this technique with my parents, my boyfriend, my kid's teachers and especially "creepy coffee shop guy"!
Hi Mountain Momma,
I've been away for the past year working on the school. It's good to be back. I really appreciate your comments about the bubbling being about each person keeping hold of their own "stuff." What a great perspective! I needed to read this today. Thank you!
Cheers!
Alexis
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