<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post7223202507116596318..comments</id><updated>2009-09-23T15:03:03.665-07:00</updated><category term='Motherhood'/><category term='Alfie Kohn'/><category term='education'/><category term='personal and spiritual growth'/><category term='documentation'/><category term='Oprah'/><category term='peanut allergy'/><category term='Parenting'/><category term='energy awareness'/><category term='space clearing'/><category term='intuitive kids'/><category term='Sparrow school'/><category term='unconditional parenting'/><category term='natural birth'/><category term='work-life balance'/><category term='potty-training'/><category term='health issues'/><category term='meditation'/><category term='intuitive/sensitive kids'/><category 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term='Simplicity Parenting'/><category term='Lucas'/><category term='gifted kids'/><category term='unschooling'/><category term='our mystical experiences'/><category term='Lucas Stories'/><category term='crystal children'/><category term='Recipes'/><category term='Race to Nowhere'/><category term='writing'/><category term='Education Considerations'/><category term='constructivism'/><category term='Superman movie'/><title type='text'>Comments on Taking the Lid off the Sun: How to be a Great Mother and Loving Wife</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/feeds/7223202507116596318/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html'/><author><name>Alexis Ahrens</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07457620238985776250</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='23' height='32' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_4qJ-6sDV3bM/TCuETxvR6XI/AAAAAAAAAGA/bOSobhDLG_4/S220/Alexis+cropped+smaller.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-1191792660029442533</id><published>2009-08-07T07:40:09.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T07:40:09.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks for the support, Stacey!&lt;br&gt;Cheers!&lt;br&gt;Alex...</title><content type='html'>Thanks for the support, Stacey!&lt;br&gt;Cheers!&lt;br&gt;Alexis</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/1191792660029442533'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/1191792660029442533'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1249656009000#c1191792660029442533' title=''/><author><name>Alexis</name><uri>http://www.littlelogbook.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-8503794494717994631</id><published>2009-08-07T07:06:13.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T07:06:13.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Cheers to you for finding time for YOU. I&amp;#39;m a ...</title><content type='html'>Cheers to you for finding time for YOU. I&amp;#39;m a huge advocate for incorporating Me Time and truly believe self care and alone time will make us better moms. Your art class sounds wonderful.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/8503794494717994631'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/8503794494717994631'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1249653973000#c8503794494717994631' title=''/><author><name>Stacey / Create a Balance for Moms</name><uri>http://createabalance.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7514077602951058546</id><published>2009-07-27T10:21:33.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-27T10:21:33.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Thanks so much, Mia! xoxo</title><content type='html'>Thanks so much, Mia! xoxo</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/7514077602951058546'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/7514077602951058546'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1248715293000#c7514077602951058546' title=''/><author><name>Alexis</name><uri>http://www.littlelogbook.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7960913581865256740</id><published>2009-07-26T11:53:47.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-26T11:53:47.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I love the painting, Lex!  You are my favorite art...</title><content type='html'>I love the painting, Lex!  You are my favorite artist.  : )</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/7960913581865256740'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/7960913581865256740'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1248634427000#c7960913581865256740' title=''/><author><name>Mia</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-2341632268053783811</id><published>2009-07-21T13:17:22.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-21T13:17:22.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Lisa ~ Why am I not surprised that you have so man...</title><content type='html'>Lisa ~ Why am I not surprised that you have so many wonderful, soul-nourishing practices in place? :)  Coffee shops late at night?  That was an intriguing one!&lt;br&gt;Cheers!&lt;br&gt;Alexis</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/2341632268053783811'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/2341632268053783811'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1248207442000#c2341632268053783811' title=''/><author><name>Alexis</name><uri>http://www.littlelogbook.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-1638246241483081351</id><published>2009-07-20T12:14:37.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-20T12:14:37.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Alexis, This is SO TRUE! I like to take long walks...</title><content type='html'>Alexis, This is SO TRUE! I like to take long walks along the beach, just me and the dog. I like to go out to coffee shops late at night, and read, or meet a friend. Yoga classes do this for me too, which I only recently resumed at a studio, after doing DVDs at home for the last couple of years. Now that my youngest are a bit older, I have resumed doing occasional weekend retreats with favorite spiritual teachers too, and it is wonderful. Namaste- Lisa</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/1638246241483081351'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/1638246241483081351'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1248117277000#c1638246241483081351' title=''/><author><name>mommymystic</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7370086593561376796</id><published>2009-07-17T12:20:35.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-17T12:20:35.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Janine~ I feel the same way about my group of amaz...</title><content type='html'>Janine~ I feel the same way about my group of amazing women I meet with.  :) Getting away from our daily roles gives us much-needed perspective, doesn&amp;#39;t it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Stacy~ I feel you with the Goodwill story!  Sounds lovely! It&amp;#39;s amazing what now feels like luxury, huh?  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your realization about who is served by your activities is a very perceptive one.  While these all sound like FANTASTIC ways of spending time, and I&amp;#39;d love to join you in each of them, I think you&amp;#39;re on to something when you say you&amp;#39;d like to add more unstructured &amp;quot;whatever&amp;quot; time, in which YOU are the key person who benefits from the activity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And thanks so much for your compliment on my artwork.  I appreciate it!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Cheers!&lt;br&gt;Alexis</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/7370086593561376796'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/7370086593561376796'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1247858435000#c7370086593561376796' title=''/><author><name>Alexis</name><uri>http://www.littlelogbook.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-354694777234367046</id><published>2009-07-15T12:29:09.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-15T12:29:09.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>I attend a meditation group three times a month an...</title><content type='html'>I attend a meditation group three times a month and I see friends for dinner a couple times a month. I write. I&amp;#39;m taking a fabulous nonviolent communication class/group right now that meets once a week. One time I went to Goodwill and tried on clothes for an hour and bought myself some new jeans. That was practically revolutionary -- spending the time on my own to try on clothes! :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;One thing I&amp;#39;ve been realizing lately is that a lot of the things I do are somehow related to parenting (one of the meditation groups is for parents, the nvc class is inspired so I can better connect to my kids, self and spouse)... There is not a lot of unstructured &amp;quot;whatever&amp;quot; time. I am hoping to add more of that in as time goes on.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;P.S. Your painting is fabulous!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/354694777234367046'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/354694777234367046'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1247686149000#c354694777234367046' title=''/><author><name>Stacy (mama-om)</name><uri>http://www.mama-om.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-1136218108248984574</id><published>2009-07-15T07:05:52.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-07-15T07:05:52.000-07:00</updated><title type='text'>A couple times a month i get out with a friend or ...</title><content type='html'>A couple times a month i get out with a friend or meet up with a group of amazing women and not only am I filled by the company I am with but also by just being out on my own without being a wife or a mommy.  I then return home rejuvenated and happy!!!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/1136218108248984574'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/7223202507116596318/comments/default/1136218108248984574'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html?showComment=1247666752000#c1136218108248984574' title=''/><author><name>Janine</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.takingthelidoffthesun.com/2009/07/how-to-be-great-mother-and-loving-wife.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5788589727819167570.post-7223202507116596318' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5788589727819167570/posts/default/7223202507116596318' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1611229887'/></entry></feed>
